Monthly Archives: January 2011


Face raised toward the Son

Thankful for the gift of life

In awe of His grace


When God Taps on My Shoulder.

I feel God tap on my shoulder sometimes. Call Judy.  Have coffee with Denise.  Go visit Ryan and Dina and the kids. Make time for those you love and care about.

I ignore the shoulder tap. Work. Fatigue. Tomorrow is soon enough.

God taps on my shoulder again. And, I hear His voice. This is what matters.  This . . . is . . . what . . . matters.  Love others.  That’s what I intend for your life.

Okay, I think. I know that is what You intend for my life.  But what about work and all I have to do?

I’ll reach out. . . Soon.

And then the blow comes. This time it isn’t a shoulder tap.  But, instead, heart-break.  And, regrets.

Too late. No chance for that cup of tea.  Or laughter. Or hugs. Or catching up on each other’s lives.

No chance to  say thank you for just being you. For being part of my life. Part of my kids’ lives. For making my life better.

Forgive me. Forgive my selfish hours. Priorities misplaced. Excuses for not taking an hour or two just to laugh with you.

Your smile and laughter fade in the distance now. Beyond my reach.

Know that you are loved.

Know that next time God taps me on the shoulder, I will listen because I will hear your voice singing and laughing in the distance.


Clothed with the Love of Christ.

I wondered into the sanctuary and sat silently, anticipating worship. I glanced around as others filed in, bundled in their coats and hats.  Layers of clothing.  We had been warned: no heat in the sanctuary.  The furnace had gone out.  So, as we prepared for worship, we kept on our hats and gloves and coats.

Just before worship began, the musicians showed up, bundled up, just like us. I smiled–my favorite musician was playing today.  Trent.  Young father, husband, and friend and mentor to my son.  But the fact that I know Trent is not why he is my favorite musician at church. (Well, maybe that helps a little!)

When Trent plays worship music, he displays joy. I can’t describe it, really.  I watch him and it is as if he were dancing before God.  The pure joy he expresses when he plays is raw and real. Despite the fact that his fingers must be freezing, he plays the banjo and mandolin with passion.

I look at him and I think — I want what he has. A big grin comes to my face. You can’t help but smile when you see him.  His face and his movement express Christ’s joy.

Even when he isn’t playing music his eyes and smile reflect Christ. The way he connects with the person he is talking to. The genuine warmth and sincerity of his words.  His compassion, kindness, gentleness. I think of his friendship with my son and what that friendship means to him.  I think, as a mom, how I value that friendship for my son.  How grateful I am that God brought Trent into my son’s life.

He is a gentle soul clothed with the love of Christ.

And, so as I worship Christ today,  I think of Trent and what it means to live our faith and reflect Christ. Truly reflect Christ.  To have His light shine through us.

I remember Paul’s letter to the Colossians:

Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.  Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.  And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity. Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts . . . And be thankful.” Colossians 3:12-15

I read that verse again. And I realize that allowing the peace of Christ to rule in my heart that will allow me to fully reflect him — not just my effort to display compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.  To “clothe” myself with these things requires first that I seek Christ’s face–seek a relationship with Him. He will clothe me in genuine, God-inspired compassion, kindness and humility.  He will help me to display gentleness and patience and show me how to forgive fully.  He will show me how to love completely.

And so, I turn toward Christ in this season of Epiphany.




Living Authentic Lives.

I sat quietly on the blue couch with my word for the year, “live.” 5:30 am, January 1, 2011.  A new day. A new year.  A word that seemed to have great significance especially on the first day of the year.

I ask myself, how will I live for Christ today? I had no sooner breathed those words when my cell phone rang.  5:37 am and my 21 year-old son was calling.  My heart felt as though it had stopped.  That feeling of dread.  A son who had been out all night.  Who had driven to a new year’s party with a friend. Why was he calling me? At this hour? The “what ifs,” the thoughts of terrible things began to run through my head.

As I answered, I heard, “Mom, everything’s okay, but I need you to come get me.” –Funny how even my son knew that a call at this hour would worry me. He knew those were the words I needed to hear first.

“Are you okay? Where are you? And, where’s your car?” I asked. “Yeah, I’m fine.  Just cold.  And my car,well, I can’t find it.  That’s why I need you to come and get me.”

And so, the story unfolded. He went with a friend to a small party in an area of town where she grew up–and area that my son didn’t know.  They parked the car and went into the house.  A few hours later, the group walked to the house of another friend–several blocks away.  Here, they saw the new year in and some of these young adults–most who lived in the neighborhood–drank a little too much.

As the party began to break up around 3:30 am, my son realized that a few of these folks shouldn’t leave on their own, even though they were walking.  So, sober and willing to help, my son pulled on his coat and hat, and walked a few of his friends safely home.

However, when he dropped of the last person and was ready to head home, he realized he had not paid attention when they had left the first house and walked to the second house. He only knew he had walked up a long hill to get to the second house and that he had walked several blocks.

So, for over an hour, in subfreezing weather, he walked the streets of NE Portland, looking for his car. He called his friend–who was asleep at the second house–for direction.  No answer.  He walked back to the second house and knocked.  No answer.  And, I’m sure he called a few more friends before he called me.

“I’m at the corner of Stuart and Alameda. How soon can you get here?” I turned on my GPS to see where I was headed, “20-25 minutes.  Stay safe and warm.  I’ll be there soon.”

And so, as I drove to get my son, I thought of my word — live — and I thought about my son. I thought about how his fun evening–catching up with friends home from college for the holiday, bringing in the new year–had turned into a morning of fatigue, and a feeling of helplessness and, perhaps, foolishness.  I thought about how he must feel standing alone on a dark street in freezing weather, surrounded by homes, yet all alone.

And, I thought about how desperately I just wanted to be there to help him.

This moment reflected what it means to live in relationship with others. How necessary it is that we spend time in relationship with others.  That we look out for those God has placed before us. And, that we learn to lean on others, even when we are ashamed or embarrassed. 

As I pulled up to the corner of Stuart and Alameda, I saw my son’s dark figure standing in the fog. He jogged over to the car and slid into the seat next to me.  “Thank you, mom,” he said, with eyes of gratitude.  “You’re welcome.  Let’s find your car so you can go home and get some sleep.”

That afternoon we laughed about how he had lost his car in the middle of a city neighborhood. But, it made me think about how lost and lonely we can all feel even when we are surrounded by others.

Being surrounded by others is not enough. To live in relationship we need to be purposeful and authentic. We need to engage others, let down our guard, listen, lean, love.  We need to live authentic lives loving others.

Christ showed us that model. He showed us that authentic love gives hope.

“Clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity. Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts. . . And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.” — Colossians 3:12-15, 17.

Nourishing My Soul with God’s Word

I headed out for my morning run. Beautiful, cool, October day.  Sun at my back and a light breeze on my face.  I felt inspired to find myself running again this past month.  Until last month, I had let my running shoes lay idle for too many months,  for too many years. I had forgotten how it renewed me.  Helped me reflect on my day.  To find time to talk to God.  And, to enjoy the beauty of creation.

But, as I rounded the corner to the next street I felt a sudden pain in my left ankle. Pain enough to have to stop.  No twisting or turning of my ankle.  Just pain.  I walked home the half mile or so, admonishing myself for not stretching enough, praying it was only a minor strain and that I would be back on the road again soon.

It’s been a few months now and I haven’t been back on the road again. And, I don’t know yet when I will.  But I smile and think that, somehow, God had His hand in this.  Somehow, my desire to run again, to work towards running a half marathon — even a full marathon–was not part of God’s plan.  At least for now.

The road He has taken me down instead, has been transforming. A stress fracture in my left leg just above the ankle, has led to the discovery of a variety of health issues, and, in turn, lots of reading and research.  To learn. To understand the underlying causes — not just the treatment.  And, ultimately, the decision to eat a plant-based and whole-grain-only diet.

My disappointment about not being able to run has subsided. In its place, I find peace.  Peace that this is a life change — a direction — that has bigger implications than I know.  That this is what I need to be doing now so that I can live a full life, as God intended.

Eating only fruits, vegetables, legumes, and whole grains–and eliminating all meat, seafood, dairy products, processed foods, and refined sugar and grains–has been easier than I ever imagined. While I would never advocate a particular diet for everyone else, I feel blessed on this diet. For the first time, I see food as nourishment and healing for my body–not as a quest to satisfy a craving or to give my senses momentary pleasure.

I pray that I will continue to see food as nourishment and healing. Not just of my body, but in my relationship with Christ.  In spending less time on earthly things — on satisfying my cravings and momentary pleasure–and  instead, “setting my heart on things above.” Colossians 3:1.

So, as I begin my journey into the new year, I journey towards Christ — to learn what life Christ wants me to live. My running shoes still lay idle in my closet.  And, my soul is not nourished by being out running on the road.  Instead,  I find nourishment and healing in food.  And,  I find nourishment and healing seeking God in other places and reading His word.  And, I am reminded “not [to] worry about [my] life, what [I] will eat or drink.”  Because “life [is] more important than food, and the body more important than clothes.” Matthew 6:25.

I am blessed. I have peace.  I have hope. God nourishes my soul.

Seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you. . . Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself.  Each day has enough trouble of its own. — Matthew 6:33.


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